words can make a person.
words can break a person.
words can make a person break another person.

and so it seems.

but when the words truly come, directly, indirectly, intentionally or unintentionally, do we believe in it, or do we still stand by the friends who is targeted.

i believe being a rational person, feelings often take control. and its nothing wrong. you feel the frustration and the angst of the person giving the words. and since that person is another friend of yours, one becomes dumbfounded about the discovery, about the news. about the "actual" wolf in the sheep hide that you didnt know but somehow you heard from others.

however, doesnt anyone ever thought back about the relationship, the friendship that was forged singlehandedly by just that two people alone? is it really that easy for a third party, an outsider to the exclusive friendship make a judgement and causes the downfall of the relationship?

i have seen many losing the trust or taking a second look at their friends, especially those they just made, because of the words that so break them. a second look simply change everything that seemed perfect. more often than not, they move on, because somehow, its alright to lose them. start to forget and forever a negative mindset bestowed onto that person who could be a nice friend, who could actually be innocent. who might not even understand what he had just done to invoke these unfeelings, these hostility from a friend whom he thought would work well.

have we reach a point where connections with people become so vast that changing opinions can be so easy. so deadly.

shouldnt they even clarify with the friends who was "blacklisted" by others by words that actually heard. wont they feel that their friends they turned down be hurt at all?

but life's seemed to continue like this. fragile and instantaneous change of fate. where the person who can convince, wins. but then, is he really a friend?

trust. give them a chance. relationship shouldnt be motivated by others.

but by your beating heart.